In our contemporary reality, the application of customs and traditions in some Moroccan families still emphasizes the preference for boys over girls
. This belief is not merely a social tradition but is intertwined with deep cultural and historical factors, reflecting negatively on women’s lives and, consequently, on the families as a whole.
It is concerning that some families put pressure on couples to marry additional wives in case they do not bear sons. This pressure, in itself, constitutes a violation of women’s rights, making them feel inadequate or incapable of meeting societal expectations. Often, giving birth to daughters is viewed as a source of shame, leading women to experience guilt and a sense of worthlessness.
Psychological and Social Dimensions
The ongoing pressure to bear sons adversely affects women’s mental health. Those who only give birth to daughters may face significant psychological challenges, including depression and anxiety. This imbalance in family values toward children can result in issues within marital relationships.
The Need for Awareness and Education
To address this issue, there must be widespread public awareness and education regarding women’s rights and their value. Education is key to changing these deep-rooted beliefs. Society must focus on promoting the understanding that girls hold the same value as boys and that their roles encompass varied contributions to the community.
The Role of Institutions and Society
Governmental and non-governmental institutions must play an active role in changing laws and policies that support women’s rights. Collaborating with local communities to raise awareness about gender equality is essential. Through seminars, workshops, and awareness campaigns, positive values can be promoted.
In conclusion, changing the traditional perspective toward the preference for boys requires a collective effort from all community members. It is crucial that we unite to create a society that values both girls and boys equally, accepting them as equal partners in life, which ultimately benefits the entire community.